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Culture and Society - DatingDatingWhat your parents should have told you about being understood and understanding - For sure my own parents never said anything to me about this fundamental shift of focus that moves your relationships either toward greatness or deflated -ness. Once my eyes were opened to it I have never looked at a human interaction the same way again. My eyes were first open by Bo, a good friend of mine. He offered this perspective on relationships, well on any meeting with another human being. It was amazed at the simplicity of it. So lets pop the million dollar question; are you a person who strive to understand others or to be understood by others? And are you able to catch yourself in the midst of a discussion to clarify which of the two you are focusing on in the moment? I claim that in any discussion or conflict that is moving in a downward spiral towards negativity, where the parties feel stuck or where the heat of the moment is mounting, that this discussion is going where it is going because there is too much focus on being understood instead of understanding the other person. A typical behaviour that we indulge into when we focus on being understood is that we have what we are going to say next playing in our head, rehearsing it, while we half-heartedly listen to the other or are just waiting for the other to catch his or her breath for a short moment so we can jump in and say what we want to have said. How Do You Get a Girl to Like You - There are some girls you meet who you desperately want to attract. In this article, you'll learn about a simple way to get that one girl to develop feelings for you. Getting My Girlfriend Back - Getting My Girlfriend Back Without Making The Situation Worse - Whether you have just broken up recently or have already broken up for a period of time, you would probably be bothered by this question, "Is getting my girlfriend back possible? I tried everything I could but the situation seems to become worse and worse. 7 Ways to Make a Woman Love You - Finding love isn't that hard to do. In this article, you'll learn the secrets for getting a woman to fall deeply in love with you. Really Corny Pick Up Lines That Girls Find Funny - Some pick up lines can actually attract a woman. If they make her laugh, then she'll find you interesting. In this article, you'll learn about an effective way to use corny pick up lines. Women Love Flowers - How To's - Advice from a Professional on when, where, what and why to send them. LDS Singles: Finding Your Way Through The Dating Maze - Marriage is important, especially for Latter-Day Saints. Finding that man or woman you will spend eternity with can be difficult. But the truth is that finding a mate does not have to be so hard. Build Incredible Rapport with a Woman You Just Met - Ok, so you can strike up a conversation with a strange and beautiful woman. You may have managed to come across witty and confidently during that conversation. The question is: is that going to be enough for her to want to see you again? A better question is "what do you really know about her that makes you want to see her again?" Get Informed About Christian Dating Services Now - Free online Christian dating is readily available for those who are looking for friends or life partners. How To Stop Break Up - Contacting Your Ex Tactically - "How to stop break up when my ex completely ignores me? He/she doesn't even bother to answer my phone calls. He/she won't even reply any of my text messages. Do you think I still have any chances?" |